Believe it or not, white lies could save your relationship.
White lies ? Well, honesty is NOT always the best policy.
An old saying: “To be a good liar, you have to have a terrific memory to remember all the white lies you told and who you told them to ‘.
So white lies are difficult to maintain. But honesty is difficult too, it’s unpleasant most of the times. It’s too hard especially when it comes to someone you love too much like your partner. Really, we don’t know which one is easier, telling white lies or being honest.
Being caught in lies could be a one-way ticket out the door and sometimes for good. Romantic relationships are hotbeds for serious lies . They are usually told to spare the other person from pain.
New research says telling white lies – specifically for the right reasons – can actually strengthen social bonds. They are important to keep your relationship strong and going. A proper balance between honesty and a bit of white lies has been proven crucial to maintain a harmonious relationship.
When you know that you’re both not totally fine but you’re asked if you are – you could simply say “We’re Fine”.
When it so hard to forgive especially when you still did not find the missing pieces to those lies , you could still say ” I forgive you. “
White lies like ” We’re Going To Make It “, when you are not too sure how much longer you can still hold on. It’s okay, say it.
Those complimenting white lies… ” It’s beautiful “, ” You’re beautiful” , “They’re nice… It doesn’t really matter if you like your gift, or his friends or you still find her beautiful. Go ahead with it.
You can see that your partner is doing great. But he or she are not even close yet. White lies like “You’re Doing Great” should be fine.
We need to try and save our relationship in the best way possible. Perhaps this has been the trick all along?