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Get Back on Track after a Big Fight

 

Get Back on Track after a Big Fight

Relationships are a very hard concept, they make you feel great, and when a fight happens, your super happy mood turns into a very bad one. You feel depressed, and the thought of being in a fight with the one you love makes you feel really bad. Moreover, recovering from a terrible fight with your partner can sometimes get hard, and you may need some time to restore the romance and affection.  We have gathered for you today, some tips on how to get back on track after a big fight.

Don’t Drag It Out

Get Back on Track after a Big Fight

 

Sometimes, even though you have come to an agreement, the other person’s and you emotions might still be running high. Moreover, you may get the temptation to make him or her recall what happened, and that is a really bad thing and should not be done.

Give Them Space

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Give them, and yourself some space. In fact, after a fight, a person needs some time alone in order to reflect, recover, or heal. If your partner is the one who did you wrong, try to take some time apart so that the bulk of negative feelings goes by, and vice versa.

Be Kind

Get Back on Track after a Big Fight

Trying to force things into happening is a very bad thing. However, there is a famous saying that says: “fake it until you make it”, and it can help you in situations like these by simply trying to be kind as well as affectionate towards your partner. Moreover, being kind is not a hard thing to do; you can make this bas saying sweet words, doing simple and kind things. In fact, when one of the parties feels like he or she is not appreciated, resentment and hostility will be the result. For example: you can give your partner a pat on the back as you walk out the house in the morning, or sending them a “just because I care” text message when they are at work, the little things can go a long way.

White Lies Save Relationships

Believe it or not, white lies could save your relationship. 

White lies ? Well, honesty is NOT always the best policy.

An old saying:  “To be a good liar, you have to have a terrific memory to remember all the white lies you told and who you told them to ‘.

So white lies are difficult to maintain. But honesty is difficult too, it’s unpleasant most of the times. It’s too hard especially when it comes to someone you love too much like your partner. Really, we don’t know which one is easier, telling white lies or being honest. 

Being caught in lies could be a one-way ticket out the door and sometimes for good. Romantic relationships are hotbeds for serious lies . They are usually told to spare the other person from pain. 

New research says telling white lies – specifically for the right reasons – can actually strengthen social bonds. They are important to keep your relationship strong and going. A proper balance between honesty and a bit of white lies has been proven crucial to maintain a harmonious relationship. 

When you know that you’re both not totally fine but you’re asked if you are – you could simply say  “We’re Fine”.

When it so hard to forgive especially when you still did not find the missing pieces to those lies , you could still say  ” I forgive you. “

White lies like ” We’re Going To Make It “, when you are not too sure how much longer you can still hold on. It’s okay, say it. 

Those complimenting white lies… ” It’s beautiful “, ” You’re beautiful” , “They’re nice…  It doesn’t really matter if you like your gift, or his friends or you still find her beautiful. Go ahead with it. 

You can see that your partner is doing great. But he or she are not even close yet. White lies like “You’re Doing Great” should be fine.

We need to try and save our relationship in the best way possible. Perhaps this has been the trick all along?

Make A Long Distance Relationship Work

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Many people think that it is impossible to make a relationship, where both parties are far from each other, grow strong and work. However, there are everyday examples that prove that a long distance relationship can actually work. Are you a person in love with someone who is miles or countries away? Do you have feelings for someone who you can only see if you can afford a plane ticket? Keep on reading, because we have put together some tips about how to make a long distance relationship work.

Carmencitta MAgazine - Long Distance Relationship Work 1Stay away from excessive communication

 Many couples think that in order to compensate for them not seeing together often, they should talk for 12 nonstop hours per day. This is wrong! In fact, being clingy and over attached is something bad. Imagine that you partner was busy, and you were not able to talk to him, you will end up fighting over silly reasons.

Look at the situation as a test

Carmencitta-MAgazine-Long-Distance-Relationship-Work-2In order to be able to live together, you should learn how to live apart. Look at the relationship as being a test for your love. See it as a short time exam that will make both of you end up in a relationship that is stronger than before.

Keep the other person up to date

Always start the day with a “good morning” and end it with a “good night”, and during the day, let them know you are thinking of them by sending them pictures, voice notes or videos. However, try not to suffocate them with too much updates.

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Stay away from trouble causing situations

If you have decided to go clubbing with a bunch of friends, and you know that your partner will be upset, try to tell them a day or two before that you want to go. However, if you feel like they will be very mad, do not do it (if it makes sense not doing it).

Habits of couples in a strong relationship

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A healthy, strong relationship is a bond that joins two people who have worked hard and fought in order to stay together. Unfortunately, some people think that these things happen overnight or come along with any relationship. In fact, the couples that always seem so happy and getting along, are the ones who have developed habits that are essential to any relationship. We will be your guide on how to be in a strong relationship.

Habit: Communication

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This habit is not easy to most people. Not everyone knows how to communicate properly and transfer their point of view. In fact, healthy couples often vocalize their feelings by complimenting each other, saying I love you, and talking about their problems instead of keeping them on the side. This is why, no matter how hard it seems, you need to get your feelings out, whether they are good or bad.

Habit: Respect

Carmencitta-Magazine-Habits-of-couple-in-strong-relaitonship-2Our parents taught us respect so that we can give it to other people. Respecting each other is the second main thing in any relationship (love is the first). In order not to break down respect, you need to stay away from name calling, threatening, and negative talking.

Habit: Quality time

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It does not matter how much time you spend together, what matters the most is that you should make the best out of this time.

Habit: Time apart

You do not need to always be stuck to your partner. In fact, spending time together is a crucial thing, just as it is to spend time away from each other. Moreover, staying together all the time will lead you to getting bored.

Habit: Appreciation

Carmencitta-Magazine-Habits-of-couple-in-strong-relaitonship-4Too many times, we forget to tell people in our lives that we appreciate them. However, telling your partner that you appreciate his or her presence will make him or her feel special and loved.

 

How to Keep your marriage

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Dating and having a girlfriend or a boyfriend is a very fun thing because of the excitement, less responsibilities, and the fun you have. However, when two people get married, they may drift into living in a routine, and this is where the excitement becomes to fade little by little. Moreover, dates become dinners in front of the TV, and responsibilities become to rise in number, especially if the couple decides to have children. However, there are some tips that you can work on, in order to save your marriage from drifting to the routine part, and keep it going on, and here we count them for you.

Set forth “yours,” “mine” and “ours.”

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This tip works the most on the finances. In fact, there are three categories for finances:  an inheritance that you got from a family member, a savings account that you accumulated before the marriage, and you a checking account to which you both contribute. In fact, you should have an upfront conversation about those three and define what belongs to whom. Additionally, you both need to talk about your time away from each other activities, for example: his beer drinking night with his friends, and her shopping weekends with the girls. Respect these important delineations. Doing so will make the relationship stronger.

Specify time to be together

Carmencitta Magazine - How to Keep your marriage 3Sure, you’re working, attending meetings, keeping the house up, car-pooling, and making the kids do their homework. However, you need to make some time in order to do activities together that you both enjoy. This could be anything from grocery shopping to taking in a movie. In fact, you need to commit to a weekly date night and make it as unbreakable as that all-important staff meeting at work.

Criticize gently

Carmencitta Magazine - How to Keep your marriage 4Of course, people make mistakes, and your partner, at some point will make one. However, don’t judge too harshly. If you criticize, do it the same way you would want him or her to criticize you. Be kind and considerate.

How To Better Communicate

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A relationship is a bond between two people who work hard in order to overcome what life throws in their ways. They bring past, put it with the present in order to shape their future together. When it comes to communication, two people might have different ways in delivering a message or a feeling. This is why, some relationships fail, because of the hardship a couple encounters when it comes to communicating in order to solve their problems. Today, we have asked our experts, and gathered some really useful tips on how to better communicate.

Carencitta-Magazine-how-to-better-communicate-2Stop And Listen

Whenever we have a fight with our partner, we find it hard to stay calm and let the other part finish what he or she has to say. Try as hard as you can to stop arguing and listen for what the other has to say.

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Force yourself to hear

Listening is not enough by its own. You need to hear! Just try to calm yourself down, sit on a couch, and really hear what your partner is saying. Moreover, if you find yourself thinking about the things YOU want to say, you are only listening, not hearing.

Be open and honest

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Keep on your mind that a little lie can turn into a big one. Being honest is a very important thing if you want to continue being in a relationship with your partner. Moreover, if you find yourself uncomfortable with something your partner did or is doing, be honest and talk about it; if you keep this feeling only for you, it might build up with other feelings and lead to a breakup.

Stay focused on one topic

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Most of the times, discussions between couples turn into an argument and they start bringing up small issues they encountered, forgetting about the thing they were talking about. This is why, you should stay focused on one thing in order to solve it and move on.

 

Relationship tips for men

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With technology roaming over our daily lives, a relationship is now hard to get through. In fact, we are seeing more status updates that aim to tell how a boy or a girl us feeling, and leaving conversations aside. Moreover, the profile updates, the photos uploads, and everything else, are making a relationship hard because there are now “standards” that should be met in order to have a good relationship. And if those standards are not there, the couple breaks up. Here are some relationship advice for men that will surely help you to better your relationship with your partner.

Carmencitta Magazine - Relationship tips for men 1Communicate

This is the most important rule. However, as hard as communicating may seem, you both have to sit down and talk about how you are feeling every once in a while. In fact, applying this rule is better than having to live in a relationship with hidden resentments and confusions.

Carmencitta-Magazine-Relationship-tips-for-men-3Do not take your woman for granted

When it comes to this fact, you need to keep in mind that she in not obliged to do something for you just because you feel that way, or because you said so. After all, homemaking is not something that only a woman should do, nor taking care of you should be her only priority in life.

Show your appreciation

We always tend to forget to show appreciation for the things we are thankful for and we love. In fact, of course you know that you love your woman and that she is an important part of your life. However, do not forget to tell her that, because all women need to hear such things.

Carmencitta Magazine - Relationship tips for men 4Surprise her often

 Never stop doing for her the things that you did when you wanted her to be your girlfriend. In fact, women need to always feel that you still care about them as much as you did at the beginning.

How to have a secret office romance

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When you start dating someone new, it is a common rule to keep things in your relationship a secret so that you get to know each other, until the both of you decide that this relationship is going somewhere and is going to be for a long term. In fact, this rule is too important and should be applied if you are dating someone who works with you at the same office. However, the trick question is: how to have a secret office romance? After you get to know your company’s relationship policy, follow these ways in order to successfully date a coworker in secret.

Have a mature discussion about the relationship

Carmencitta-Magazine-secret-office-romance-1.After four dates, you should consider having the “where is this going?” conversation. This is sooner that most relationships, because you will be seeing this person a lot and in a work space where you will be a secret. Moreover, in that conversation, you should try to discuss the seriousness of the relationship, how would the both of you handle things if the relationship ended, how you’re going to interact with, and treat each other at work, and what would happen if one of you should consider leaving the company, if that was what is needed.

Try to hang out with other colleagues at work.

Carmencitta Magazine - secret office romance 3In fact, if you only hang out with one another, you are going to give clues that you are in a relationship. There are ways to avoid this: never meet in an office where the door is closed, and make sure that you mingle with other people at events. In addition, do not show affection in a workplace.

When the right time comes, reveal your relationship to others.

After the both of you get to know each other, you have to tell your coworkers. The fact that you need to tell them is because they may look at you unprofessionally if they find out in a way or another.

 

Timeless Couple

What’s the secret behind this timeless couple? 

Timeless couple goes against all odds. 

Timeless couple … a relationship that lasts forever. Anyone who is single, divorced or in a complicated relationship tends to wonder… ‘How do they make their relationship last forever?’ 

Couples face lots of different life obstacles. These obstacles can either make couples fall apart or make them grow closer together.  A timeless couple fight together against all odds. 

What’s the secret behind this timeless couple ? 

To start with, a successful timeless couple is based on true friendship. They know each other well, their highs and lows and their likes and dislikes. A timeless couple knows how to make their partner laugh, how to enjoy the same things together. They are best friends and best friends work hard to maintain a friendship. 

It is said that lack of affection and sexual intimacy is the first step towards a failure.  Losing that bond is stressful for a couple especially for men as they tend to express their love physically. Physical affection and intimacy does not really mean sex.  Kisses, hugs, back rubs and even a pat on the head are expressions of affection. For a timeless couple it increases their intimacy and can make them feel loved.

Communication seems simple for a timeless couple . But the truth is that communication is incredibly difficult to do in a long lasting relationship. The problem with communication is that most people are not good at it.  To be able to communicate you need to speak honestly, listen carefully and think more about how the other person is feeling. A timeless couple does all that. 

Like water to a flower, mutual respect nourishes the timeless couple . You respect by listening to one another’s opinions, accepting each other’s ideas and expressing pride. This makes a timeless couple feel loved and safe. However, without trust there can be no respect. 

A timeless couple is all that. Always together against all odds.

How to Get Him to Apologize

How To Get Him Apologize

So, you got in a fight with him, and the blame is all to be thrown on him. In fact, it does not matter if the problem is big or small, what matters is that he needs to apologize. However, getting an apology from a guy is a hard thing to do because ego always plays its turn. We know how frustrating waiting for an apology could get. This is why, we have met with our experts and gathered some information and tips on how to get him to apologize.

No Calling and No Texting Him

How To Get Him ApologizeThe first thing you need to do in order to express that you are not pleased because there was no apology from his part, is to stop calling and texting him. However, when he calls you and asks you that why you have not been texting and calling him, give him a vague answer and do not invent any excuses. In fact, most of the guys will notice that you are in a bad mood. However, this may not grant you any apologies.

Avoid meeting him until he says sorry

How To Get Him ApologizeJust like the way you try not to call and text him, stop meeting with him until he feels guilty and calls you in order to apologize. In fact, this can help when you say no for going out on a date with him without providing him with any excuse. In fact, this takes time, and you need to wait for him to feel guilty and call you in order to ask you why you are depressed. Once he tries to tell you sweet words, tell him in a nice way that you are hurting because you got in a fight.

Ignore his presence when he is around

How To Get Him ApologizeWhen he is around you, stop being cheerful. Start ignoring him and act as if he doesn’t exist. This is he most effective way to make him notice that something is missing. This way, he will realize that you are still feeling bad about the tiff he had with you earlier.

 

 

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