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Workaholic Husband , Deal With It 

You are proud of his work. But he’s workaholic. 

 

While you are proud of his hard work and thankful that he has a job, but you also are a little jealous. Your workaholic husband swears that he’s not cheating on you. But for you, he’s kind of … with his job. Well, a workaholic must love his career to be able to give it too much and from his valuable time. He is totally dedicated to it. He wants to make sure things get done correctly.

A workaholic acts the same way men in affairs with women do. He takes mysterious phone calls when you are out to dinner. His phone keeps beeping with early or late morning texts. And when you are lying in bed, he secretly emails and text co-workers. He thinks you’re not looking.

Of course making a big deal out of it, won’t get you anywhere. Learn how to deal with a workaholic husband. 

To start with you need to stop getting jealous from his laptop. You know it’s the only major tool to get things done for a him. 

When it gets really tough to handle, talk about it with him. Explain to your workaholic that he needs to be around to cater to your needs. If this is missing, it would lead to insecurity and emotional void in your relationship.

But, it’s not always about you. Listen to him and try to find out why he is a workaholic. You may learn something new. Directly after that try to set limits. Slowly, help your workaholic to work a bit less. But let the limit be a sensible one. Say “no” when needed. During this you and him alone, let your workaholic unwind. Create an interesting life for both of you. In case you need to share his work problems and achievements. Show interest in goals, daily problems, but make sure it does not drag. 

Finally, accept that your workaholic partner leads this busy life. Learn how to use your alone time wisely.

Habits of couples in a strong relationship

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A healthy, strong relationship is a bond that joins two people who have worked hard and fought in order to stay together. Unfortunately, some people think that these things happen overnight or come along with any relationship. In fact, the couples that always seem so happy and getting along, are the ones who have developed habits that are essential to any relationship. We will be your guide on how to be in a strong relationship.

Habit: Communication

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This habit is not easy to most people. Not everyone knows how to communicate properly and transfer their point of view. In fact, healthy couples often vocalize their feelings by complimenting each other, saying I love you, and talking about their problems instead of keeping them on the side. This is why, no matter how hard it seems, you need to get your feelings out, whether they are good or bad.

Habit: Respect

Carmencitta-Magazine-Habits-of-couple-in-strong-relaitonship-2Our parents taught us respect so that we can give it to other people. Respecting each other is the second main thing in any relationship (love is the first). In order not to break down respect, you need to stay away from name calling, threatening, and negative talking.

Habit: Quality time

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It does not matter how much time you spend together, what matters the most is that you should make the best out of this time.

Habit: Time apart

You do not need to always be stuck to your partner. In fact, spending time together is a crucial thing, just as it is to spend time away from each other. Moreover, staying together all the time will lead you to getting bored.

Habit: Appreciation

Carmencitta-Magazine-Habits-of-couple-in-strong-relaitonship-4Too many times, we forget to tell people in our lives that we appreciate them. However, telling your partner that you appreciate his or her presence will make him or her feel special and loved.

 

How to Keep your marriage

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Dating and having a girlfriend or a boyfriend is a very fun thing because of the excitement, less responsibilities, and the fun you have. However, when two people get married, they may drift into living in a routine, and this is where the excitement becomes to fade little by little. Moreover, dates become dinners in front of the TV, and responsibilities become to rise in number, especially if the couple decides to have children. However, there are some tips that you can work on, in order to save your marriage from drifting to the routine part, and keep it going on, and here we count them for you.

Set forth “yours,” “mine” and “ours.”

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This tip works the most on the finances. In fact, there are three categories for finances:  an inheritance that you got from a family member, a savings account that you accumulated before the marriage, and you a checking account to which you both contribute. In fact, you should have an upfront conversation about those three and define what belongs to whom. Additionally, you both need to talk about your time away from each other activities, for example: his beer drinking night with his friends, and her shopping weekends with the girls. Respect these important delineations. Doing so will make the relationship stronger.

Specify time to be together

Carmencitta Magazine - How to Keep your marriage 3Sure, you’re working, attending meetings, keeping the house up, car-pooling, and making the kids do their homework. However, you need to make some time in order to do activities together that you both enjoy. This could be anything from grocery shopping to taking in a movie. In fact, you need to commit to a weekly date night and make it as unbreakable as that all-important staff meeting at work.

Criticize gently

Carmencitta Magazine - How to Keep your marriage 4Of course, people make mistakes, and your partner, at some point will make one. However, don’t judge too harshly. If you criticize, do it the same way you would want him or her to criticize you. Be kind and considerate.

Get Your Ex Back

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Break ups are one of the most painful things a person can encounter. The long lonely nights, the tears, the missing them part, and many other things make you feel empty inside and in deep need for them. Getting back your ex is not an easy thing, especially if there was cheating. However, there are some steps you can follow that may help you get them back.

Carmencitta-Magazine-how-to-get-your-ex-back1.Step Number 1: Admit That You Have Made Mistakes

Think about what you did, and tell the person that you have made a mistake. After all, we are all human beings, and nobody is far from doing mistakes. After you think of them admit them. Later on, you should start considering an apology. Think how you are going to apologies, in fact, the best way is face to face since text messages are out of emotions.

Carmencitta-Magazine-how-to-get-your-ex-back3Step Number 2: Think about what you are going to say

Before meeting with them, think about your motives. Do you really love them? Are you willing to live your whole life with them? If the answer is yes, try to put those thoughts out in a romantic way. Next, try to figure out where you are going to say those words.

Step Number 3: Respect their decision

If you hurt them too much, chances are that they will need time to think about it. Give them some space, and let them think. Do not suffocate them with texts, just stay away!

Carmencitta-Magazine-how-to-get-your-ex-back5Step Number 4: Do Not Beg

Begging is a bad thing. Stay confident, go to the gym, and take care of yourself. Moreover, consider dating other people and enjoying your life. Go out with your friends and focus only on oneself. After that a while passes by, you can re-contact them to see their final answer.

Make A Long Distance Relationship Work

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Many people think that it is impossible to make a relationship, where both parties are far from each other, grow strong and work. However, there are everyday examples that prove that a long distance relationship can actually work. Are you a person in love with someone who is miles or countries away? Do you have feelings for someone who you can only see if you can afford a plane ticket? Keep on reading, because we have put together some tips about how to make a long distance relationship work.

Carmencitta MAgazine - Long Distance Relationship Work 1Stay away from excessive communication

 Many couples think that in order to compensate for them not seeing together often, they should talk for 12 nonstop hours per day. This is wrong! In fact, being clingy and over attached is something bad. Imagine that you partner was busy, and you were not able to talk to him, you will end up fighting over silly reasons.

Look at the situation as a test

Carmencitta-MAgazine-Long-Distance-Relationship-Work-2In order to be able to live together, you should learn how to live apart. Look at the relationship as being a test for your love. See it as a short time exam that will make both of you end up in a relationship that is stronger than before.

Keep the other person up to date

Always start the day with a “good morning” and end it with a “good night”, and during the day, let them know you are thinking of them by sending them pictures, voice notes or videos. However, try not to suffocate them with too much updates.

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Stay away from trouble causing situations

If you have decided to go clubbing with a bunch of friends, and you know that your partner will be upset, try to tell them a day or two before that you want to go. However, if you feel like they will be very mad, do not do it (if it makes sense not doing it).

Christmas Gift Ideas For Him

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December is here, and the main thing that roams through our minds every day is Christmas. In fact, when it comes to presents, the hardest thing to do is decide whether your loved one will like the gift or not. The possibilities are uncountable, and the ideas start making you feel like you are in a rollercoaster and do not know how to get out. Do not panic! We have gathered for you today, some of the best Christmas ideas for your boyfriend, fiancé, lover, husband…etc. that we guarantee he’ll like.

Nose And Ear Trimmer

Every man, whether he is hairy or not, does not like to keep seeing those few hairs that keep sticking out from his nose or ear. This is why, a nose and ear trimmer would be the perfect gift for him, and he will not have to go through days of sticking out hairs anymore.

Powerbank

This gift is appropriate for the men who are always on their phone. In fact, carrying a charger everywhere will not guarantee that he will be able to recharge his phone when it is low on battery. This is why, a powerbank will allow him to recharge it whenever he wants, and wherever he is.

Sports Cars Driving Chance

This is, for sure, one of the best gifts a woman can give to a man. Every man, as much as he denies it, is a sports car lover. Search online for availabilities and book it right away. In fact, this might cost you a little bit more, but it is worth it for sure.

Smartphone Projector

A smartphone projector is a device that allows you to put your phone inside, and watch a movie or a match while it is projected on the wall. In fact, every guy will enjoy it because it will be perfect for his reunions with the boys.

How to Get Him to Apologize

How To Get Him Apologize

So, you got in a fight with him, and the blame is all to be thrown on him. In fact, it does not matter if the problem is big or small, what matters is that he needs to apologize. However, getting an apology from a guy is a hard thing to do because ego always plays its turn. We know how frustrating waiting for an apology could get. This is why, we have met with our experts and gathered some information and tips on how to get him to apologize.

No Calling and No Texting Him

How To Get Him ApologizeThe first thing you need to do in order to express that you are not pleased because there was no apology from his part, is to stop calling and texting him. However, when he calls you and asks you that why you have not been texting and calling him, give him a vague answer and do not invent any excuses. In fact, most of the guys will notice that you are in a bad mood. However, this may not grant you any apologies.

Avoid meeting him until he says sorry

How To Get Him ApologizeJust like the way you try not to call and text him, stop meeting with him until he feels guilty and calls you in order to apologize. In fact, this can help when you say no for going out on a date with him without providing him with any excuse. In fact, this takes time, and you need to wait for him to feel guilty and call you in order to ask you why you are depressed. Once he tries to tell you sweet words, tell him in a nice way that you are hurting because you got in a fight.

Ignore his presence when he is around

How To Get Him ApologizeWhen he is around you, stop being cheerful. Start ignoring him and act as if he doesn’t exist. This is he most effective way to make him notice that something is missing. This way, he will realize that you are still feeling bad about the tiff he had with you earlier.

 

 

How to have a secret office romance

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When you start dating someone new, it is a common rule to keep things in your relationship a secret so that you get to know each other, until the both of you decide that this relationship is going somewhere and is going to be for a long term. In fact, this rule is too important and should be applied if you are dating someone who works with you at the same office. However, the trick question is: how to have a secret office romance? After you get to know your company’s relationship policy, follow these ways in order to successfully date a coworker in secret.

Have a mature discussion about the relationship

Carmencitta-Magazine-secret-office-romance-1.After four dates, you should consider having the “where is this going?” conversation. This is sooner that most relationships, because you will be seeing this person a lot and in a work space where you will be a secret. Moreover, in that conversation, you should try to discuss the seriousness of the relationship, how would the both of you handle things if the relationship ended, how you’re going to interact with, and treat each other at work, and what would happen if one of you should consider leaving the company, if that was what is needed.

Try to hang out with other colleagues at work.

Carmencitta Magazine - secret office romance 3In fact, if you only hang out with one another, you are going to give clues that you are in a relationship. There are ways to avoid this: never meet in an office where the door is closed, and make sure that you mingle with other people at events. In addition, do not show affection in a workplace.

When the right time comes, reveal your relationship to others.

After the both of you get to know each other, you have to tell your coworkers. The fact that you need to tell them is because they may look at you unprofessionally if they find out in a way or another.

 

Pros and cons of transracial adoption

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Transracial adoption, or the joining of racially different parents and children together in adoptive families, can be considered as a double-edged sword.

Could thinking differently help children to find a match with a new generation of parents?

Transracial adoption, whether through its various forms of domestic adoption or international adoption, is considered as the most noticeable form of adoption, because the physical differences between adoptive parents and adoptee are more visible and irreversible.

Most people seem to be sympathetic to transracial adoption parents and children because it would likely lead to an overall reduction of prejudice that would lead in turn to a more productive and healthier society. Main argument? Skin color should not determine the success of an adoption!

Accordingly, adoption agencies were recently required by law to disregard the racial, and cultural background of children when a placement is made. However, many people still believe that a good cultural fit is still an important way of creating a sense of belonging for an adopted child. This could be best illustrated by Savita de Sousa, policy consultant at the British Association for Adoption and Fostering: “Transracial adoption can have very good outcomes, but one issue keeps cropping up – and that’s a sense of loneliness and isolation, a sense of not belonging. Adoption is a new identity and when you get the added challenges of people asking ‘Why do you look so different?’ you need to think about whether you are meeting the needs of children.” Similarly, other people claim that transracial adoption is not ideal for all children because it sheds light on key issues like self-esteem, confidence and identity.Nevertheless, recent research studies have revealed that, in general, the advantages of transracial adoption outweigh the disadvantages. This could be best summed up with the following quote by Robert Morrisson:

“The quickest cure for racism would be to have everyone in the country adopt a child of another race. No matter what your beliefs, when you hold a four-day-old infant, love him, and care for him, you don’t see skin color, you see a little person that is very much in need of your love”.

Get Back on Track after a Big Fight

Get Back on Track after a Big Fight

 

Get Back on Track after a Big Fight

Relationships are a very hard concept, they make you feel great, and when a fight happens, your super happy mood turns into a very bad one. You feel depressed, and the thought of being in a fight with the one you love makes you feel really bad. Moreover, recovering from a terrible fight with your partner can sometimes get hard, and you may need some time to restore the romance and affection.  We have gathered for you today, some tips on how to get back on track after a big fight.

Don’t Drag It Out

Get Back on Track after a Big Fight

 

Sometimes, even though you have come to an agreement, the other person’s and you emotions might still be running high. Moreover, you may get the temptation to make him or her recall what happened, and that is a really bad thing and should not be done.

Give Them Space

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Give them, and yourself some space. In fact, after a fight, a person needs some time alone in order to reflect, recover, or heal. If your partner is the one who did you wrong, try to take some time apart so that the bulk of negative feelings goes by, and vice versa.

Be Kind

Get Back on Track after a Big Fight

Trying to force things into happening is a very bad thing. However, there is a famous saying that says: “fake it until you make it”, and it can help you in situations like these by simply trying to be kind as well as affectionate towards your partner. Moreover, being kind is not a hard thing to do; you can make this bas saying sweet words, doing simple and kind things. In fact, when one of the parties feels like he or she is not appreciated, resentment and hostility will be the result. For example: you can give your partner a pat on the back as you walk out the house in the morning, or sending them a “just because I care” text message when they are at work, the little things can go a long way.

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