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Make A Long Distance Relationship Work

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Many people think that it is impossible to make a relationship, where both parties are far from each other, grow strong and work. However, there are everyday examples that prove that a long distance relationship can actually work. Are you a person in love with someone who is miles or countries away? Do you have feelings for someone who you can only see if you can afford a plane ticket? Keep on reading, because we have put together some tips about how to make a long distance relationship work.

Carmencitta MAgazine - Long Distance Relationship Work 1Stay away from excessive communication

 Many couples think that in order to compensate for them not seeing together often, they should talk for 12 nonstop hours per day. This is wrong! In fact, being clingy and over attached is something bad. Imagine that you partner was busy, and you were not able to talk to him, you will end up fighting over silly reasons.

Look at the situation as a test

Carmencitta-MAgazine-Long-Distance-Relationship-Work-2In order to be able to live together, you should learn how to live apart. Look at the relationship as being a test for your love. See it as a short time exam that will make both of you end up in a relationship that is stronger than before.

Keep the other person up to date

Always start the day with a “good morning” and end it with a “good night”, and during the day, let them know you are thinking of them by sending them pictures, voice notes or videos. However, try not to suffocate them with too much updates.

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Stay away from trouble causing situations

If you have decided to go clubbing with a bunch of friends, and you know that your partner will be upset, try to tell them a day or two before that you want to go. However, if you feel like they will be very mad, do not do it (if it makes sense not doing it).

Pros and cons of transracial adoption

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Transracial adoption, or the joining of racially different parents and children together in adoptive families, can be considered as a double-edged sword.

Could thinking differently help children to find a match with a new generation of parents?

Transracial adoption, whether through its various forms of domestic adoption or international adoption, is considered as the most noticeable form of adoption, because the physical differences between adoptive parents and adoptee are more visible and irreversible.

Most people seem to be sympathetic to transracial adoption parents and children because it would likely lead to an overall reduction of prejudice that would lead in turn to a more productive and healthier society. Main argument? Skin color should not determine the success of an adoption!

Accordingly, adoption agencies were recently required by law to disregard the racial, and cultural background of children when a placement is made. However, many people still believe that a good cultural fit is still an important way of creating a sense of belonging for an adopted child. This could be best illustrated by Savita de Sousa, policy consultant at the British Association for Adoption and Fostering: “Transracial adoption can have very good outcomes, but one issue keeps cropping up – and that’s a sense of loneliness and isolation, a sense of not belonging. Adoption is a new identity and when you get the added challenges of people asking ‘Why do you look so different?’ you need to think about whether you are meeting the needs of children.” Similarly, other people claim that transracial adoption is not ideal for all children because it sheds light on key issues like self-esteem, confidence and identity.Nevertheless, recent research studies have revealed that, in general, the advantages of transracial adoption outweigh the disadvantages. This could be best summed up with the following quote by Robert Morrisson:

“The quickest cure for racism would be to have everyone in the country adopt a child of another race. No matter what your beliefs, when you hold a four-day-old infant, love him, and care for him, you don’t see skin color, you see a little person that is very much in need of your love”.

How to have a secret office romance

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When you start dating someone new, it is a common rule to keep things in your relationship a secret so that you get to know each other, until the both of you decide that this relationship is going somewhere and is going to be for a long term. In fact, this rule is too important and should be applied if you are dating someone who works with you at the same office. However, the trick question is: how to have a secret office romance? After you get to know your company’s relationship policy, follow these ways in order to successfully date a coworker in secret.

Have a mature discussion about the relationship

Carmencitta-Magazine-secret-office-romance-1.After four dates, you should consider having the “where is this going?” conversation. This is sooner that most relationships, because you will be seeing this person a lot and in a work space where you will be a secret. Moreover, in that conversation, you should try to discuss the seriousness of the relationship, how would the both of you handle things if the relationship ended, how you’re going to interact with, and treat each other at work, and what would happen if one of you should consider leaving the company, if that was what is needed.

Try to hang out with other colleagues at work.

Carmencitta Magazine - secret office romance 3In fact, if you only hang out with one another, you are going to give clues that you are in a relationship. There are ways to avoid this: never meet in an office where the door is closed, and make sure that you mingle with other people at events. In addition, do not show affection in a workplace.

When the right time comes, reveal your relationship to others.

After the both of you get to know each other, you have to tell your coworkers. The fact that you need to tell them is because they may look at you unprofessionally if they find out in a way or another.

 

How to Compliment A Woman (About Something Other Than Her Boobs)

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Paying someone a sincere compliment is a regular part of flirting. After all, who doesn’t like to hear that they’re enchanting or that they’re the only cactus in your garden? However, most men go straight for complimenting a woman’s looks. 9 times out of 10, this is a mistake. Under the best of circumstances, complimenting someone’s looks is both boring and unoriginal. You’re almost never the first person to suggest that maybe she could be a model or how great her legs look or her boobs. Even “you’re hot” is lame – inoffensive, relatively speaking, but lame. It shows absolutely no imagination, creativity or confidence.

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Furthermore, the other thing about complimenting a woman’s looks is that you’re signaling that you really don’t know anything about her that isn’t all surface. Most attractive people put a significant amount of work into looking good; complimenting someone’s looks is complimenting the end result but without noting the effort it took.

Moreover, Compliment a co-player on how she put her costume together. Tell someone her outfit looks great. Ask a good question about something in the photo, so she has something to respond to. This is why, you should spend even five minutes learning enough about women’s clothing to say something intelligent about it. If you can put in the time to breed a shiny Pokemon or grind your MMO character to the level cap, you can put in even a little effort towards learning how to recognize kitten heels. It will pay off far more than any comment about her tits.

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Finally, and while I’m at it: the “gentlemanly” compliment of “you have such a lovely face, you shouldn’t have to show off your body” isn’t going to win you any favors. It just says “Yes, I stared at your boobs, but you should know I didn’t like it because I’m a Nice Guy.” If your compliment can be followed up with “m’lady…” then you need to rethink it.

Get Your Ex Back

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Break ups are one of the most painful things a person can encounter. The long lonely nights, the tears, the missing them part, and many other things make you feel empty inside and in deep need for them. Getting back your ex is not an easy thing, especially if there was cheating. However, there are some steps you can follow that may help you get them back.

Carmencitta-Magazine-how-to-get-your-ex-back1.Step Number 1: Admit That You Have Made Mistakes

Think about what you did, and tell the person that you have made a mistake. After all, we are all human beings, and nobody is far from doing mistakes. After you think of them admit them. Later on, you should start considering an apology. Think how you are going to apologies, in fact, the best way is face to face since text messages are out of emotions.

Carmencitta-Magazine-how-to-get-your-ex-back3Step Number 2: Think about what you are going to say

Before meeting with them, think about your motives. Do you really love them? Are you willing to live your whole life with them? If the answer is yes, try to put those thoughts out in a romantic way. Next, try to figure out where you are going to say those words.

Step Number 3: Respect their decision

If you hurt them too much, chances are that they will need time to think about it. Give them some space, and let them think. Do not suffocate them with texts, just stay away!

Carmencitta-Magazine-how-to-get-your-ex-back5Step Number 4: Do Not Beg

Begging is a bad thing. Stay confident, go to the gym, and take care of yourself. Moreover, consider dating other people and enjoying your life. Go out with your friends and focus only on oneself. After that a while passes by, you can re-contact them to see their final answer.

Get Back on Track after a Big Fight

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Get Back on Track after a Big Fight

Relationships are a very hard concept, they make you feel great, and when a fight happens, your super happy mood turns into a very bad one. You feel depressed, and the thought of being in a fight with the one you love makes you feel really bad. Moreover, recovering from a terrible fight with your partner can sometimes get hard, and you may need some time to restore the romance and affection.  We have gathered for you today, some tips on how to get back on track after a big fight.

Don’t Drag It Out

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Sometimes, even though you have come to an agreement, the other person’s and you emotions might still be running high. Moreover, you may get the temptation to make him or her recall what happened, and that is a really bad thing and should not be done.

Give Them Space

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Give them, and yourself some space. In fact, after a fight, a person needs some time alone in order to reflect, recover, or heal. If your partner is the one who did you wrong, try to take some time apart so that the bulk of negative feelings goes by, and vice versa.

Be Kind

Get Back on Track after a Big Fight

Trying to force things into happening is a very bad thing. However, there is a famous saying that says: “fake it until you make it”, and it can help you in situations like these by simply trying to be kind as well as affectionate towards your partner. Moreover, being kind is not a hard thing to do; you can make this bas saying sweet words, doing simple and kind things. In fact, when one of the parties feels like he or she is not appreciated, resentment and hostility will be the result. For example: you can give your partner a pat on the back as you walk out the house in the morning, or sending them a “just because I care” text message when they are at work, the little things can go a long way.

How To Better Communicate

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A relationship is a bond between two people who work hard in order to overcome what life throws in their ways. They bring past, put it with the present in order to shape their future together. When it comes to communication, two people might have different ways in delivering a message or a feeling. This is why, some relationships fail, because of the hardship a couple encounters when it comes to communicating in order to solve their problems. Today, we have asked our experts, and gathered some really useful tips on how to better communicate.

Carencitta-Magazine-how-to-better-communicate-2Stop And Listen

Whenever we have a fight with our partner, we find it hard to stay calm and let the other part finish what he or she has to say. Try as hard as you can to stop arguing and listen for what the other has to say.

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Force yourself to hear

Listening is not enough by its own. You need to hear! Just try to calm yourself down, sit on a couch, and really hear what your partner is saying. Moreover, if you find yourself thinking about the things YOU want to say, you are only listening, not hearing.

Be open and honest

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Keep on your mind that a little lie can turn into a big one. Being honest is a very important thing if you want to continue being in a relationship with your partner. Moreover, if you find yourself uncomfortable with something your partner did or is doing, be honest and talk about it; if you keep this feeling only for you, it might build up with other feelings and lead to a breakup.

Stay focused on one topic

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Most of the times, discussions between couples turn into an argument and they start bringing up small issues they encountered, forgetting about the thing they were talking about. This is why, you should stay focused on one thing in order to solve it and move on.

 

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